Sunday, November 22, 2009


I'm in a gorgeous house in Bangalore. At 1:20 in the morning, with yellow lighting, Sammy Davis Jr. in the background, some chick-lit, good rum and friends who have quietly dozed off after great conversation. A gentle buzz fuzzes up my brain and I think of what has been and what could be. I feel my age.


It's a beautiful age. The perfect mix of nostalgia and potential. The cusp.

Rajat Kedilaya, my IIT coach's son, was this age when I first saw him. He was 24, having finished his engineering at IIT Bombay worked in Korea for a couple of years and come back to Manipal for a few days before he was to start his job as the head of a new division of electronics engineering in Bangalore. It was a Thursday morning, cool and dewy and green and fresh. He'd just finished playing with the new Dachshund of the house, Hooper. He stopped, moved to the ledge and leaned up against the pillar with a faraway look in his eyes and smiled. He smiled the most satisfied smile that I had ever seen in my life.

I walked in through the front gate at the time with my pre-university backpack full of painstakingly prepared notes and a textbook that I'd always meant to read but never did. And I looked at him. He didn't notice me. But at that moment, I knew that I wanted that at 24.

I have it now. My God.

I have loves that I wish I hadn't lost and memories that I know I'll have. The melancholy, bitter-sweet happy-sad hope. My heart is full of contentment.

I can't help but smile. The 16 year old me would have been very happy to see this. Thank you, anyone and everyone who made this possible.


Vimal said...

love reading your blog. write more often, if you can.

write to me if you're interested in a litle (pseudo-)intellectual gymnastics. I might have something you'll like.

Czar said...

On one hand I like the post, and would like to share the happiness with some gay bonding.

Congratulations on becoming what you have become, and which you truly desired to become.

On the other hand, for trip sake, I couldn't help but remember Benny Bennasi's video. :P

Roshni said...

A year for another post?! Hmm..

Archana Bhui said...

Longish time and I dropped in to see ur post!!! I had a smile...
Nice going :)

RKD said...

methinks I might have just been enjoying the smell of dosas wafting in from the kitchen. But looks like I gave a different impression;let's keep it that way :)



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